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I’ve always wondered how you’d deal with a seemingly dangerous secret when developing new relationships with people.

I have no idea how much you’d keep this from those you’re close to but I at least assume it’s something you’re not gonna being up when first meeting someone, but it might be something you’d eventually reveal to someone you completely trust.

With platonic relationships I’d imagine it’s not a huge issue, your friend having secrets isn’t the end of the world if it’s not something that impacts you, but In a more intimate or romantic relationship, keeping huge secrets of any kind is often at the very least straining.

So I guess all that is to just ask, how do you deal with this when you’re getting to know someone? Is it something that depends based on the person, is it something you never actually bring up, or is it actually just not a big deal?