Lucky_Bastard63

Was in a young married couples class in church and they threw this out there... If your sex life is healthy and satisfying then sex is only about 5% of your relationship, but if it is a problem or not fulfilling it can be about 85% of your relationship... kind of like the old joke... Sex is like Oxygen... it becomes more important the longer you don't have it.

I am a sanctimonious unforgiving cunt because on issues like this because I was the victim. I have lived with the the impact for over 20 years. It has cost me relationships and pain that no physical injury has ever come close to causing. It made me question if I should have children because of studies that show people that are abused can often become the abuser. I could care less about a damn upvote but I damn sure won't be forgiving.

Let your Director of Support know they are doing a pretty good job, I have reported some issues in the past and always received a good response. That is unless you don't like that person and are in need of a new Director, if so just let me know where to apply.

Thanks, hopefully my children feel the same way.

No worries and thank you. I was extremely bitter for many years but have mostly come to terms with it now.