LifelongNoob

Typically speaking, men primarily desire sex and women primarily desire intimacy.

Sorry, but I'm not able to take you guys seriously anymore.

Not even necessarily dystopian future. This works in the dystopian present too. Like in the arrest of the Golden State Killer:

Police said they checked the crime scene DNA against one of the genealogy sites that have lately become popular — databases filled with the profiles of people who have volunteered their genetic codes in the hope of discovering their relatives and ancestors.

The suspected Golden State Killer was not in this database, either, but it didn’t matter. A distant relative of his was, police say, and that person’s DNA partially matched evidence related to the serial killer.

source for GSK bit

Obviously I'm glad it led to this guy getting slammed, but it's not so cool when innocent people are implicated in crimes.

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Hey now.

You're being unfair to Cosmo. It's a retrograde sexist rag but at least it admits women actually enjoy sex.

Great! And then of course there are also sources like this:

NHSLS interviewed a nationally representative random sample of U.S. adults about diverse aspects of sexual life... Contrary to gender stereotypes, women's emotional satisfaction was closely associated with bodily sexual practices, whereas men's physical pleasure was linked to relational factors.

It's never as simple as a sweeping generalization, and offering one helps no one.