LeaLea1711 karma2016-12-21 14:42:17 UTC
Hey, I just wanted to say... my partner went through / is going through a similar situation to you. He did time and got out, spent some time unemployed looking for answers... fortunately he had his parents and family for support. But that also comes with drawbacks.. a lot of gossip and twisted storied between friends and acquaintances... but anyway.. a few years later and he worked his way to a decent job.. he met a pretty awesome chick. Hi. We traveled to many different countries..And now we have a nice home and a beautiful little girl who just turned 1. When he tells me stories of prison.. or the few times he did attempt to end his life, my heart absolutely breaks and i wish so bad that i could turn back time and find him so that i could hold him and tell him that everything turns out amazing... but i know also that those moments of hurt and hopelessness made him stronger and eventually more determined to succeed. Every choice we made, lead us to eachother. So as cheesy as it sounds.. you truly don't know what the future has in store for you. Dont let a piece of paper determine who you are. You know who you are, you're the same person you were before all this happened. This just happened to fuck with you.. for a bit.
I'm so looking forward to when our daughter turns 5.. we're going to take a family vacation overseas without reporting it before hand and having to give the police all of our hotel and travel information.
Funny i never thought that would be something I'd have to think about!!
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