LazerFX

If you're going into a house, and searching it reveals that something illegal was done there, do you have to report it to the authorities? Have you ever come across such a thing? I'm not sure what would count - I'm sort of imagining serial killers or something, but I guess it's likely to be much more mundane...

95 to 98% of the time, things are wonderful... But if you try to ask questions that people don't like, everyone turns on you. The congregations are very cliquey, so if you're on the in crowd, you'll not be seeing most of what happens...

How did you get diagnosed? I've been concerned I've been autistic (mildly) or ADHD, but have no idea how to get diagnosed or who to speak to... I'm in the UK if it helps...

I'd love to know your plans for dealing with crushed produce. We have a constant issue with refunded materials due to damage, and talking to the drivers it's a constant thing - we just bring the boxes to the door, it's the picking and packing that's the problem.

Examples: Fruit placed under heavy pepsi bottles, pizzas placed on their side and then folded in half by heavy objects above, cans crushed or dented by heavy objects placed in the box, microwave meals punctured by cans/sharp objects above.

It's rare for me to go a week (we have a weekly delivery) without something being crushed. I'd say (apart from stupid substitutions, which all online supermarkets have an issue with) it's our biggest problem at the moment.

What do you plan to do about this?

I'm an ex JW, who only really realised just how controlling everything was when I left... I met someone outside "the truth", and we're now happily married (a big no-no, going out with someone who's not a fellow JW).

My father is still a JW, but we keep in touch (I was never disfellowshipped)... I'd love to show him what things are like... I even said that everything was like a cult, with extreme mind control effects, but he just agreed... Ah well. I can only hope. Any advice?