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LawBird33101154 karma

I would imagine that it would be taken orally, either pill form or powder. ADD medicine is chemically similar to meth, and achieves some of the same effects with less severe reactions and it is also taken orally, however people have also been known to crush and snort it instead like cocaine.

LawBird3310172 karma

How often do you see multiple partner relationships pan out well for the individuals involved?

I get the feeling that a lot of the stories that get posted regarding involving additional people in the bedroom have one major divide: those that are doing it to save a relationship and those who are doing it because their relationship is particularly strong. Naturally there also seems to be a fairly even divide between the results of said relationships.

What makes those types of relationships healthy versus unhealthy, in broader terms than a threesome to save a relationship is more likely to kill it? Have you had clients that maintain healthy poly relationships? This question is less geared towards open relationships, more actual shared partner situations.

LawBird3310165 karma

Unless both partners are communicating (meaning she doesn't merely shut you down passive aggressively) then you're not going to resolve the issue. Sexual compatibility is pretty important for most people, so you have to decide how important it is for you.

What to do from there consists of waaaaaay too many complicated parts to give you a firm solution, but open communication is your path to figuring that out.

LawBird3310130 karma

I work as a Social Security and LTD attorney, and pretty much whenever I'm asked if it's better to just start with us I tell people the initial application is 95% putting information in boxes.

People can still screw up their claim if they fill out the activities of daily living incorrectly, normally by severely overestimating what they can actually do. But for the most part I can get around stuff like that easily enough, more of a speed bump than an actual obstacle.

LawBird3310124 karma

That's actually close to word for word the types of examples I give people. The ones who always are the worst about them in my experience are veterans, because they like to think of what they could do without regard for the consequences.

Sure, you can mow the lawn. But you also just told me that the last time you did that you weren't able to get out of bed for a week. You can help with the dishes, but considering you've dropped half of them in a month you probably shouldn't be.

I think veterans have a particularly rough time as a class because they went from being very capable to minimally capable. It's harder than always feeling a bit off and already having adapted to limitations.

E: I also tell people to think about what they're capable of doing on their worst day, when all of their symptoms are acting up. Then answer as if it's asking you about those days. We're trying to show the Social Security Administration your limitations, be open and honest about how limiting your conditions can be.