KmndrKeen

So wait... you're telling me that this could happen just out of the blue, one day my wife wakes up with an inverted nipple?!?

Others focus on helping others so we don’t have to deal with our own stuff.

This is mine, and I'm not sure how to approach dealing with it. I have a constant feeling of guilt when working on things for myself, as I've committed my time to others and I have a hard time saying no. I have a plethora of useful skills, and I often feel obligated to help the people I love because I'm their best option. How do I say no to someone who's desperate when I'm able to help, albeit at the cost of my own progress? All the time I feel like I'm drowning in the mountain of tasks and yet I'll always be the one to cover for someone if they're short rent or need some help with their car.