Keeganwherefore

being a dominatrix means you will have to clean a lot.

Girl, yes! It’s insane how much cleaning I do on a daily basis. So many different bottles of cleaner for silicone, plastic, glass, wood, can’t mix up the bottle of lube with the bottle of latex shine, gotta make sure the autoclave is working, gotta mop the floor cause the puppy pads are soaked through, just one session can be an hour’s worth of cleaning! I always joke that if I ever decide to stop being a pro-Domme that I will take up cleaning houses. 🤣

it's a different hustle. OF millionaires often aren't just filming their hookups, they're doing paid messaging and custom content. Blake is right in that it takes a certain type of person to bring the energy that can be turned on/off like that on a porn set with 30 people on it. OF is a different hustle just like camming or stripping or FSSW is a different hustle. different people thrive in different areas of the industry. I work in the sex industry, some of the world's best strippers make the world's worst porn stars, some of the best, most talented and successful Dommes I know make terrible OF creators. in our industry, it's literally different strokes for different folks.

Fellow stripper here, DONT call the club. Seriously. Don't do it. Most clubs (in Texas, Georgia, and NY anyway) will tell you they're not hiring over the phone. This is because some girls show up and are turned away (because of their looks or their demeanor or we have too many blondes or whatever), and then throw a tantrum when management says "we actually aren't hiring". Your best bet is to get dressed up (well-fitting dress or shorts and a nice top, nothing too fancy but nothing too casual either), visit the club on the shifts you want to work (if you want to work days, come in on a dayshift, if you want to work nights show up at 5 so management can get your paperwork ready before they get busy, etc), and don't show up on a Friday or Saturday, many clubs will not hire on Fridays and Saturdays.

Box lingerie can be okay, but you WILL 100% need a proper t-back to dance in clubs in almost all states. A t-back can be ordered online or bought from a house mom in the clubs, or if you have a dancewear store near you, you can get it there. It's normally a spandex thong that's double lined. They're comfortable, wash well, and come in a million different colors and styles.

You can wear whatever. Seriously. I did my first audition years ago in a pink bikini. Later on I wore box lingerie with knee high black boots. Then it was cheap cocktail dresses I bought at Charlotte Russe. Now I dance in floor length bedazzled gowns. Some girls wear slutty Halloween costumes, some girls wear a bra and panties, some girls wear cut up tshirts. The most important thing is to figure out what YOU are comfortable in and what works best for YOU.

Edit: your audition could be many things. It could be working a full shift, it could be one song on a stage, it could be as simple as going in the dressing room so they can see what you look like naked. But NEVER EVER agree to give a manager a lap dance as part of an audition. It's highly unprofessional and really creepy of management to ask for that. If they ask for that, thank them for their time and get out of there ASAP.

Bro, never give up. My best friend was in a couple of made for TV movies, and one mega blockbuster, he gets mostly $1 checks (it's been almost 30 years since the big hit), but every few years or so, there's some interest in his film or a new network buys the rights to his TV movies, and he gets a $5k+ check. It's a tidy little bonus.

I think she means "search by what they are looking for", rather than search by what they are