KarleySlutever

I think men should be more open to the idea of being submissive sexually—not just for the woman's sake, but because people can get a lot out of submission. we mostly assume that in bed, the man is dominant and the woman is submissive. but like... isn't that exhausting for the man? to feel like he can never submit to his partner and be vulnerable? also being submissive is fun bc you get to relax and just lie the fuck down while the other person does the work lol. also it's fun to switch it up sometimes! im so attracted to men who are comfortable enough in their masculinity to role play and be spanked or whatever!

This is such a great question. I definitely think there is a double standard here, and that we think it's "hot" and "exploratory" and even "natural" for a woman to want to experiment with other women—we are more open to the idea of female bisexual being "a thing"—but with men, we assume even one blow-job from another dude makes them gay. it's not cool. In terms of research into sexuality, it's been difficult to know whether men are truly less bisexual than women or if it's just cultural conditioning. But i would say personally that I am very into bisexual men! I think a man who is bi means he's very comfortable in his sexuality and masculinity and that's hot! I've dated multiple bi guys.

I'm sorry that you feel you've been overlooked. i dont mean this to sound like a generic answer, but i think the best way to appeal to other people—to make other people love you— is to get to a place where you love yourself. people who are passionate about what they do, who are active and treat themselves with respect, will always attract other people. also, you're young. you have many years of slut potential ahead of you :)

swallow--its only polite!

r/karleysciortino

hmm... maybe when the other person is going down on u bc they're already in the area so its really convenient