JPGR999

I’m a 23 year old male in a hetero relationship. I just got into a relationship with this woman that I’ve known and been friends with for a little over a year. Things are really great, and I love being with her. She has a male best friend that she’s been friends with for the last 10 years or so and they dated twice when they were just becoming friends. I know that nothing would happen between them, and I trust her and him completely, but I just keep getting this flash of fear, self loathing, and jealousy when I hear that they’re hangin out together when I’m not available. I can’t help but think “well she’s gonna wake up and realize she wants to be with him and they’re probably having sex and being romantic when I’m not around”. I have a feeling that it stems from low self-esteem and thinking that I don’t deserve the trusting, loving relationship that we have. So at any moment SOMETHING could go wrong. And that just feels like the most obvious thing that could happen. I’ve told her all of this and let her know what I’ve been experiencing. I just don’t want to feel that irrational fear anymore and not be anxious whenever they hang out. Any thoughts or advice? Thanks in advance!

Hey Jason! Thanks for doing the AMA! What happened to Soda Dad, and would you consider doing more vines with that character?

Thanks again!

P.S. Did you ever see the vine that was hashtagged: jasonnashismarried with two white guys in a Mongolian BBQ? Have a good day man!

Okay will do! And that sounds great, but I get what you mean about running its course.