IcanSew831
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IcanSew83120 karma
My husband died of cancer here at home at age 56 after knowing of the cancer all of 6 weeks. We had only been married 3 1/2 months when he passed. In his final 3 days he seemed very angry with me and didn’t want me around. Have you heard of this and is there any understanding or did he really just hate me when he died?
IcanSew83113 karma
Thank you for responding, I didn’t think you would. It’s been almost 8 years now and I still struggle with this. The first 3 years after he died I just believed he hated me and since I’ve read some things that have helped and it was much like your advice. It does settle me some and at least I’m not in tears constantly anymore. Before he met me he also lost his partner of 7 years and so I also think my husband knew of what life journey I was about to embark on and he may have felt guilty for putting this burden on me, in his mind. I very much appreciate your time.
IcanSew8319 karma
My instant reaction to this is to begin acting like you didn’t want people acting around you. You’re doing this on your terms as much as you can and all I can say I’d do what you’ve got to do. I wish for you a multitude of love in your life.
IcanSew831128 karma
You’re amazing. My dentist gifted me a 3 unit bridge ($7,800 out of pocket) instead of the flipper I was going to get and that restored my smile, It was the most amazing thing for my self esteem after my husband had passed. If this person that need to get to Florida is domestic, I’ll buy the plane ticket. Just let me know.
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