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Sounds nice. Maybe I should die a little.

Do most people root for the same team or are there lots of loyalties? Go Flyers!

I agree with some other posters that you don't want to put too much pressure on yourself. However, I don't believe that you should just sit back and not pursue people/relationships. Whenever I've been chill about things, absolutely nothing happens. Nothing. Maybe this works for some people, but I think you need to show some interest from time to time. Learn to flirt. Try non-tinder online dating. Go to social events. Flirt.