IHateNoobss422

Hey guys! Never listened to the show but I’ve come to read these responses, and now I’ve got a question of my own

Recently I was talking to a girl at work(great start I know), we’d agreed to go out for a date, but then one day she sorta stopped talking to me for 2 weeks and later said she didn’t want to do anything right now. I didn’t pressure her on this, because why? but now it’s made my work life really miserable. I can’t explain how or why, but I’m absolutely filled with anxiety (or maybe fear) around her to the point I completely ignore her. It’s getting really toxic since it affects my whole mood for the day/days, and I need something to change (and getting moved around isn’t an option)

To make matters worse, my manager is… clingy, in a way. She likes to be really friendly, sometimes touching me (like cheek pinching stuff) and calling me her buddy and stuff… and if I hint or imply I’m not her best friend she gets offended. Recently she asked me to come in on a day off, I said no and she was then upset for the entire night. Do I have to just put my foot down and piss her off?

Thanks!

Thank you so much for this! It’s been a painful past few weeks, hopefully this makes the next a little better