Husibrap

Can you please describe your psychological state when you were acting as the perpetrator? Did you feel like you "became" the attacker?

I read your comment about knowing "how to fight". I feel like I am very good a being a productive arguer, but when you described the opposite as "your conversations are filled with criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and emotional shutdowns (or stonewalling)", I literally thought you were describing my girlfriend in detail.

What can I do to bring her away from that style of fighting?

As someone from Canada which is generally accepting of other ethnicities, to what extent would you say racism permeates geographic locations like the one where your Klan was based?

I’m referring specifically to the general public, not just Klan members.