Hobgoblinpie

As much as I understand the reasoning behind saying that... I disagree.

If humans were not capable of freewill, then I would say to blame the actions. However, humans are capable of knowing the difference between right and wrong, as well as doing (and not doing) things.

Your father is a child molester, and always will be. This will sound very shrewd and pessimistic, but in my experience of life so far, people can pretend to change, but exactly who people are... that never changes.

Oh that's a good comparison! Haven't seen it, but reading it in French. Again, I'm not trying to offend or anything, and I do think it's good that you've been able to forgive him to some degree.