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Remember that this particular individual had genetic predisposition for Kidney dysfunction as a result of his Sickle Cell Anemia. Compounding factors came together to increase his risk for cancer.

This is anecdotal evidence and shouldn’t dictate how people live their life. Ofc, get tested for suckling and then get them gains babay!

When did it occur to you that you needed to express honest concern with your partner? How long were you aware of your symptoms before you decided together that it was time to look for help?

This has been an incredible share and so emotionally educational. Thank you so much for sharing!

How can I get help with IS? Who do I turn to?

I have a similar background to you. I quit my path towards medical school. All of my friends & family are confused as to why I didn’t apply. I always tell them that I wouldn’t have accepted my application if I was them. I never applied. I gave up on my aspirations because of IS. I’m aware of it, but what do I do when self-awareness isn’t enough?

I have a great therapist. I don’t think he understands IS. He’s an old man, a wonderful listener & encouraging but I’m not sure he knows what to do with me. Our talks always end with the same sign-off: “you’re very intelligent & capable. You’re figuring this out on your own.”

But I’m not :/

I’m going to suggest this as a future session and see if he is receptive. He’s never denied the existence of IS but doesn’t seem to recognize it. I think he’s just one generation removed from this part of psychology.