Hector_Castillo

Dating coach here. I'm super curious, if you're willing to engage - why is it contemptible for men to approach random women? Is it the act itself (you find it morally flawed to seek sex/romance) or their method?

And what is your goal by "intervening"? Do you fix their method or just want men to stop talking to women forever?

If you're approaching girls after a guy clumsily tries to pick her up and asking her how it went, it's pretty obvious she's going to be annoyed, no? But it seems really clear she's criticizing his approach, not the fact that she was approached. Are you telling me not a single girl has reacted positively?

So it seems like you have a problem with bad seduction?

Question is, how is X guy going to get GOOD with girls without practicing?

You write poetry. I do copywriting and fiction writing.

The more I did it, the better I got. I'm sure your skill with syntax and diction has increased dramatically since you went full-time poet, no?

Same with socializing and sex and romance - the more you do it, the better you get. It's an art like anything else.

If a girl gets bothered for a few seconds or even a minute by some guy who can't take a hint, it's not really a big deal, is it? As long as he's not harassing her, insulting her, or physically assaulting her, it's just two people having a conversation, no? Her being a woman shouldn't change the moral status of said conversation.

As for no cold approach, man, how am I supposed to meet that beautiful I see walking past me? I gotta know her friends and then meet them at a get together? But how do I meet THOSE people who know her? It's an infinite chain of regressing loneliness to not be able to cold approach. You can do social circle, yeah, but most of my social circles in my life are people who I met by coincidence and randomly said "hello." Only other method to "randomly" meet her is to a pull a Penn Badgely and go full "You."