HarpyCisco

Hi, thanks so much for doing this. When I was around 8 years old, I had an experience with an older cousin which I've never been able to identify as assault or not.

Essentially, he held me in his lap and jabbed my sides repeatedly to keep me flinching and unable to move, while he rubbed himself against me and called it a massage; I could feel that he was aroused. Eventually I had the voice to yell stop and he did instantly, before giving me an actual massage. Does this count as assault in your professional opinion?

How has this impacted your career? Sorry for such a sensitive question, I'm a musician and hearing about such a severely damaged arm makes my brain jump straight to career issues If it's costed you that and even if it hasn't, sincere condolences