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  1. How do you know if someone is uncomfortable with you?

  2. There's this girl that I've been wanting to be friends with since last September. I'm going to have the opportunity to hang out with her next Friday. I overcame my anxiety that I had which is why I couldn't hang out with her sooner. I think I was also dealing and still in a way am dealing with low self-esteem because I tell myself, "Well she's really cool/outgoing so why would she want to hang out with someone like me?" I was at a very dark place and I started having this well screw everyone, I don't need friends. But, I'm starting to realize that no one is better than me and I am not better than anyone and I am worthy of connecting with others. Do you have any advice of how to deal with low self-esteem? I'm noticing that I'm still bringing myself down and poking fun at it with other people like "oh you don't want to hang out with me, I'm a loser," like yeah I'm joking, but at the same time maybe it's not a joke because maybe I'm just using my humor to deflect how I really feel. I don't know.

  3. Also......how do you get someone to want to hang out with you again? What can I do to make someone feel comfortable with being themselves and opening up to me?