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Fresitak5 karma

I love this! It doesn't have to be one or the other. Have empathy for yourself and then towards others.

I have found way more difficult to do the exercise of finding out where all my struggles come from, than to find them in others. I think that's the main reason people care more about others than themselves, it just easier. Each time I think about it I get to the same conclusion. Do you think that's the reason? We always look for the easiest path? Or is there other reason.

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I noticed that a lot of people who have this problem also have difficulties expressing their emotions (especially the bad ones) for fear if losing those "relationships" I put that in quotes because I don't think people who can't express their own emotions can have meaningful relationships.

How to help people to love themselves and feel confident? I don't think you can care and love others if you don't do that first with yourself.

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How can you get the skills and confidence to look into your own emotions?