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DumQueztionz50 karma

Hi Dr. Jess.

I'm a 35 y/o married man, and I have an issue where it takes a very long time for me to orgasm during intercourse. 45+ minutes usually.

If I put my mind to it I can get it down to 20 or so if I focus on it. It's not unpleasurable, but my wife doesn't like the time commitment and it's hard to talk her into sex most of the time.

The truly odd thing is that if I mastribate I can get the job done in a minute or two. But when I do that I don't stroke my penis very much at all.

Is this situation common, and can anything be done to help me improve my speed?