Hi Karley! I loved the section in your book about sugaring. I've tried to dabble in sugaring and have gone on some dates, but I've had a lot of trouble getting myself to feel confident or safe. You do a great job of describing how sugaring is part of life for confident and driven women, and it's not always ending in murder. And the men who purchase sex aren't "hopeless losers" either. But some of the stigmas have some truth to them and do you think that sugaring falls something on the spectrum between empowering and shameful? I think after messages and verbal comments of men saying belittling things to me because they think they can say whatever they want if they "paid" for you, can I still feel empowered through it?
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Hi Karley! I loved the section in your book about sugaring. I've tried to dabble in sugaring and have gone on some dates, but I've had a lot of trouble getting myself to feel confident or safe. You do a great job of describing how sugaring is part of life for confident and driven women, and it's not always ending in murder. And the men who purchase sex aren't "hopeless losers" either. But some of the stigmas have some truth to them and do you think that sugaring falls something on the spectrum between empowering and shameful? I think after messages and verbal comments of men saying belittling things to me because they think they can say whatever they want if they "paid" for you, can I still feel empowered through it?
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