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I have thought that it might be the fact that that I am used to doing it I guess "my way", and that just may be the case. He's never seen me orgasm, and this is probably a bad thing considering we're 5 years into it. I've never tried stimulating my self in front of him.

I'm a pro at masturbating, I can always get off without any issues. My boyfriend has never successfully made me orgasm in the 5 years we've been having sex, sometimes when he gets close I just start laughing. Why can't he?

30 minutes is about how long the whole thing lasts, even if I try to masturbate during sex it doesn't happen.

Mostly just ineffective I guess. He doesn't try very hard and then gives up quickly when he does.

Definitely have tried directions, maybe we're just not sexually compatible...