CaptnSauerkraut

Hey Carlos, you're a legend for doing this. Your answers so far have been a great read and very insightful.

My question would be, how do you get over the feeling of having missed out in the past?

A little background: I was in a relationship during my whole time at university. That relationship ended shortly after, I got a job moved to a new town and so. Now, I have a new girlfriend that I love very much and she has been quite active during her time at university. This shouldn't be a problem but I always get a little sad/angry when I think about it because I feel like I missed out and there's no way I will have a chance like that again. It's a bit like a sexual retroactive FOMO. This is causing nothing but trouble but I can't seem to stop it.

Would be amazing if you could give me any advice or tips. Thank you!

Edit: Put the question first.

I have no idea what the squeezes are. Could you explain? Big fan of this ama by the way. Will definitely try to make a stop at your place on my next Greece vacation. Supercurious about freediving since I went snorkeling around Milos two years ago. Can't wait to get back.

You're definitely not alone with this. I'm having the exact same issue and it pisses me off because I know how irrational it is. I can always make it go away after a while of pondering but suddenly, in the middle of the night or at work or what do I know that image comes back and I have to start all over again.

Ah man, thanks a lot for that. Will ponder on the questions and bring that up in a conversation with my SO as soon as I can. Great food for thought.

You're awesome Carlos!