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I'm curious to ask "why"? Why did you do this?

Reason for my question. A month ago, my wife started dialysis for chronic kidney failure. We've known this day would come for about 10 years or so. We just didn't know it would be NOW. She's on two lists for transplant. Wait time is unknown as she's type O blood. In the meantime, as her husband, I feel like I should be first in line to see if I'm a candidate for her. I'm healthy. No drugs or alcohol...or anything. Weight is maintained through regular exercise. Everything I know about myself tells me I'd be a perfect candidate. But I can't bring myself to even test to see if I can. She doesn't deserve that. And it's selfish of me. But it scares the shit out of me.