BlueGreenandBrown

The poster in question is saying that OP would be the perfect girlfriend because she never talks. That's a shitty thing to say.

People are more vocal about the negative. People who have the surgery and have positive results, go on and live their lives and never think about it again. They don't hang around and post about it on internet forums.

I remember that I had a lifting restriction of 5 lbs. for like 3-6 months afterwards, to avoid rupturing anything on the inside. My mom had to come live with me, because I had young children at the time and I couldn't life and carry them. Also, the pain didn't hang around too long but I was exhausted for a very long time, longer that I expected. I was napping or going to bed early for maybe 6 months after the surgery.

I had a Chiari Malformation with 12 MM descent. I had resection in 2009. It went really well and I am merrily living my life.

It can be totally okay so don't worry too much, okay?