Bayou_Blue

When you're hugging her, discretely pat her down for matches.

I never actually really thought of it that way. Perhaps that is a bad analogy. Thanks for your take on it.

I am not one for hate, but GOD I hate cancer. I have lost 2 brothers to this, one with a rare form of liver cancer, the other to lung cancer. Both fought long and hard but lost in the end. I'm very, very sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine how hard it must be to lose a child.