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BananaBladeOfDoom78 karma

I have a fairly niche and quite-harmful kink. I really enjoy doing it, but aside from one person, I never found anyone who would enjoy it with me. On the other hand I'm not very interested in the vanilla kind of sex.

Are fetishes able to be unlearned? Is it possible for one to become more interested in more common and less harmful practices? What reading materials would you recommend on this subject matter?

BananaBladeOfDoom30 karma

Sadism & Masochism. A niche subset of it that can quite possibly result in permanent damage.

It can be roleplayed, sure, but it feels fake. My best pleasure was from one person who actually enjoyed the pain, but we did not work for other reasons. There's that miniscule chance I find someone else, I guess, but I'd rather just lose the fetish completely and have it replaced by pleasure for something that can actually be real without me hurting anybody or them pretending for me.