AsLongAsItsFree

Have you posted any of your own secrets? Who would you and any of your secrets to?

I know it might not matter much coming from an internet stranger, but I am so proud of you for not putting up with anything more from him. I'm glad to hear that you reported him immediately, and I'm even happier to hear that you're not getting back with him.
I've heard too many horror stories of mothers defending their boyfriends and husbands who molest or rape their daughters.
In fact, my own mother tells people all the time that when her mom was suspicious of her now-ex boyfriend, she told her, "If you see Jim molesting AsLongAsItsFree, don't tell me. I'll know you're making it up."
No one ever molested me, thank God. But I know that if he or any other of her boyfriends ever did, I'd be shit out of luck.
Stay strong! You can do it; you're a tough lady, and I know your daughter is in good hands. I wish you and your little girl all the best from behind my keyboard! <3

Exactly. Have as many as you want, as long as you can provide for them adequately.

Tall beer glasses? Why those? It kind of makes me wonder if Mr. Rand didn't like alcohol or he was against it or something.