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AnonymityismyRemedy18 karma

How would you rate Aiden Aspen on the deepthroat scale?

AnonymityismyRemedy5 karma

I wish you luck. Don't let the massive amount of creeps stop you from reaching your goals!

AnonymityismyRemedy3 karma

My fix for...similar issues...was acceptance. We are, often to a large measure, created by our experiences; often negative ones.

For me, coming to terms with some of my tendencies reduced the risks I was talking when I was actively ashamed of "what I was". Spent a lot of years pressured by family that being anything but 100% straight was directly to being ostracized and damned to hell. Spent a lot of years feeling like I was a monster for some of my sexual desires.

I went to some sessions about the bulk of that, never had to really mention what literally happened to me, ultimately that's in the past. I started with the now, worked back some, and big doses of "I need to forgive myself and embrace the weird".

I'm sorry for your pain, what I said may have not helped at all, but at least for a moment believe you are not alone in your battle.

AnonymityismyRemedy1 karma

You fucked her recently! Perhaps that answers the real questions. Haha

AnonymityismyRemedy1 karma

I was quite alarmed at the amount of women (and men, based on my DMs), that are more than willing to be beaten, choked unconscious, and held and knifepoint (to include cutting) once I started opening up about my own kinks rather than kink shaming myself, something it looks like you do a measure of yourself.