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19codeman9361 karma

As an East TN native (a few hills away from ORNL) I was going to ask if you ever worked there! I'm sure it was fascinating.

19codeman932 karma

OP, I am an ex foster care case manager for my state's children's services. I still work for the department, but have since transferred to juvenile justice (basically intensive probation for delinquent youth). First off, I'd really like to tell you that I, as well as any social worker out there, truly appreciate your commitment to this child. I got to see a few of my kids adopted and it's such an amazing feeling.You all are wonderful people.

Now for my questions. You may have answered this, so I apologize, but do you plan on opening up your house to be foster parents for more children in the future?

Were you satisfied with how you and your husband were treated as foster parents? If not fully, is there something you believe could/should be done differently?

I know it's a long and strenuous process going through social services, but because of you one more child has their forever family. :)

19codeman932 karma

I'm sorry you had a horrible experience with the first two. Unfortunately, there truly is so so much that we have absolutely no control over. That doesn't excuse them for not following through on anything, though. Every concern should be taken seriously and never brushed aside. I'm so glad you were given a better case manager in the end! Thank you for answering my questions and I hope you all have a wonderful day 😊