IamA former Backpage massage girl - AMA!

My buddies girlfriend "cleans houses" too.

Til one day I heard from one of her male clients that she did what you did. Now, I don't know if she fucked her clients, but I told my buddy she's getting half naked and massaging them at least.

Do you fuck the client? (or john, I'm not sure the lingo these days)

Never. I gave hand jobs and that's all. I am sure she is doing at least that.

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I did the massages topless. I did provide happy endings. Anywhere from $100-$200, depending on the demand of the day.

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Literally no difference. On busy days I would charge $200.

I would say the youngest was around 23 and the oldest around 70. Most often individuals would fall between 30 and 50.

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Oddly enough, the clients were always either white or Asian. I wouldn't have cared if they were any other ethnicity, but that is just how it happened to play out.

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We would exchange e-mails at first. If they seemed at all sketchy, I would not respond/stop responding. After a short e-mail exchange, I would ask for their number. My friend or I would call them on a Google voice number to confirm the appointment. We always let the guys know that their address was being given to a friend of ours to ensure our safety. Most guys were cool with that. If they weren't, we wouldn't meet them.

I'm just curious why your rate was so low for happy endings, I'm a stripper and do NOT provide happy endings, and I charge on average $500 an hr for topless dances in VIP.

I didn't do an hour of work. Massages end up being around 20 minutes in total. I was also not trained. Plus, that's the going rate. I didn't have to stand in a club where a whole room could see me; I was willing to take a pay cut to have that level of anonymity.

Ha, did you know the link still works http://chicago.backpage.com/BodyRubs/hot-hipster-college-chick-looking-to-give-a-massage-22/14119707 ?

I figured it might! Funny!

I'm curious about grad school. After having spend a significant time in grad school, a stipend seems to be a common thing among engineering folks. The amount varied between labs and departments. Did you not have a stipend? Or was it not enough?

I stopped doing this shortly after I started grad school. I did it through most of my undergrad.

What would you say you earned in a week?

On average, ~$400-$500 weekly. We could have earned more, but we both had a lot of other things going on.

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We are Groot.

Why not just take out student loans to support yourself through college?

Why would I have done that when I was able to earn money?

Were you sexually abused as a child?

Nope! I had a great childhood and am actually a successful, well-adjusted adult. Different morals for different folks, my friend.

if we have sex and i don't pay, is it rape or theft?

Well, if I don't consent, it is rape.

What if you consent expecting pay and he doesn't pay after?

I never had sex for money.