IAmA a guy who fractured my penis last year, had a series of 12 injections in my penis to fix it that didn't work, and then had penile surgery to finally repair the damage. It's been 2 months now, AM(and my fiance)A!

pic of your penis?

Give me a few minutes to work on that for you.

Can I sign your cast?

Sure, come on over.

Are there any things (sexually or non-sexually) you can't do anymore due to this whole ordeal? Are there any things you won't do again because of this experience?

We were really concerned about trying doggy again because of this whole ordeal, but we actually tried it just the other night for the first time and it went well. It actually helped me a little. I lost some feeling in parts of my penis from the surgery and it seemed like doggy style helped me get sensation in the good areas that don't normally get stimulation from missionary. More tests are required before publishing a conclusion though ;)

Congratulations, you have successfully made me terrified of sex

Glad I could help!

Gonna Karma-Whore this a second time. This man was my secret santa match, blah blah blah. Proof

You know it!

Don't have anything to ask, just had to say damn dude...that fucking sucks...never thought I'd see someone talking about their dick and the phrase "good as its going to get".

I hope medical tech gets really badass real soon and they can just grow you a new one or give you a bionic dong or something.

aca, ya a bionic dong might be kind of cool, but I'm at place now where sex is pain free and enjoyable. On top of that, I am going to be able to have kids when we are ready, so no complaints.

Does sex feel any different for her now? Meaning more or less enjoyble?

Fiance: I don't feel that there has been any change feeling-wise. More enjoyable that we do it more now!

Were the two of you nervous trying it again for the first time after the injury? How long did the two of you have to wait?

We were supposed to wait two months, but that was just far too long. We ended waiting until the beginning of June, by that time all of the stitches had dissolved and I was no longer having pain with erections. We were so nervous the first time that there was barely any in or out stroke, much more kissing and her making sure I wasn't hurting. It worked out though.

Unless your fiance is a dude, it's spelled fiancee.

Noted. Thank you.

are you able to have sex?

Yup! I knew that I would still be able to before agreeing to the surgery. Things work a little bit differently now, but the TL;DR is that yes I can.

Things work a little bit differently now

could you elaborate?

I still have a pretty decent bend in my penis (I'm going to get you guys a photo in a bit) and it isn't quite as long as it used to be. The biggest change though is that I have lost feeling on the bottom of my penis, from about mid shaft all the way up to the tip of the penis.

This has made it a little more difficult to orgasm, and we've been trying different positions, rhythms, and foreplay that we didn't used to do in order to work past this. Our sex life has been awesome though, perhaps more active now than before. She says she doesn't miss the extra length, but I do :(

So, breaking your penis gets you more blowjobs? I'm tempted to try this now...

Would not recommend.

are there any precautions you have to take?

Just being careful not to bend it again. It still has a good bend to it, but it is what the doctors call "functionally straight." Basically they say it' straight enough to do it without serious risk of reinjury. I also lost a little length so getting our rhythm down again has been a learning process.

Functionally straight, like Ryan Seacrest?

Ya, a little like that.

Are you a boobs guy or an ass guy?

Ass guy.

Is that why you frequent doggystyle?

You betcha!

All in all how much did the injections and surgery cost? Glad that everything worked for you! I'm now terrified this will happen to me. Thanks for the AMA regardless! It can be hard to talk about stuff like this.

The surgery and treatment was 100% free. I was medically retired from the Army and receive free care from the VA because of the percentage they rated me at. I can't imagine how much the bill would have been otherwise.

Well at least we're still giving our army vets good medical treatment

Free, the good part is up for debate. Although I guess at that price point it's hard to be picky.

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Other injuries.

Ok, I have to ask. Medically retired due to the fracture? I can't imagine having "penis fracture" as a service-connected disability.

No, but my service connected injuries and deployment get me free medical care.

Now I am mildly disappointed.

Sorry :-/

Thank you for your service in the military!

You're welcome, but to us it's just a job. :)

How did you do this?

My fiance and I were going at it doggy style and she zigged while I zagged, next thing you know I slipped out and as I was following through on my in stroke she came back at me and then :(

describe the pain? how much did it hurt? did it snap? (I read it makes a popping sound sometimes)

The initial injury hurt and definitely ranks in my top 10 most painful moments, but I was able to finish since I was only a couple strokes from orgasm anyway. The days following the surgery were far worse than the initial injury. I kept getting erections and it would pull at the stitches causing an EXTREME amount of agony. The doctors eventually prescribed me valium and that pretty much eliminated the erections.

Edit: And yes I both felt and heard it "pop."

So you broke your penis and yet you kept going, that's a man with priorities

Ya, I was so close to finishing that I just slid it back in and finished up in a couple strokes.

You're my new hero for finishing the piece after breaking your instrument

I am what I am, I do what I can.

Mission first, soldier.

Yes sir!

Dude, just so you know, fiancée is spelled with an extra 'e' if it's a woman.

I thought you were getting married to a guy, and that this was happening in Vermont, California, Washington, or what have you.

Yup, got the correction from someone else here. I can't change the title though so we're stuck with it.

Do you have any type of scar or bump because of the surgery, if so then how large is it?

Edit: Spelling

They used my circumcision to deglove the penis during surgery, so no new scars. If you were to actually feel the penis you can tell where the new tissue is that was put in place of the excised scar tissue.

You sir, have a massive set of balls.

Thanks. Grew them myself.

Unsure if you'll remember me, I was the dude from your last AMA that had a double cock op. Grats on the recovery, glad it's gone excellently for you :⁾

Thanks my dude. I hope everything is moving along for you as well.

How long were you in surgery?

It was only supposed to be about 2 hours initially, I just asked my fiance and she said it ended up being closer to 6 hours.

Why did you go to the hospital instead of coating your penis in fix-it-all? It fixes everything you know.

I've honestly never heard of fix-it-all. I'll have to give it a look the next time I fracture my penis though.

You mean to tell me you didn't try Tussin?

I was all out at the time.

So I assume you went at least a month without orgasm? How was it when you finally ended that tremendous dry spell?

Fucking incredible!

I seem to remember a scene from Scary Movie 1 or 2 where the girl is on top and, when the guy finally busts, she gets fired into the ceiling and held there by a geyser. Or guy-ser if you prefer.

That's what I just pictured in my mind.

It was a little bit like that, or at least that's how it felt for me.

how long before this injury was hilarious?

Probably about the time I started getting injections and telling my friends about it. So, 6 months give or take.

Do they give you any rehabilitation exercises?

Initially I was doing what I think most people call "jelking." Basically milking my penis. Now, I've graduated to use a pump to get friction and help promote straighter erections.

How would one go about avoiding fracturing one's penis?

Just be mindful of your in stroke.

Shower or grower? And is that different from prior to the break?

I'm definitely a grower. It's a little bit shorter now than it was in the surgery photo though. I'd say around half an inch, but my fiance is sitting over my shoulder telling me I'm just being critical of it.

Congratulations on the healed wiener, but I just came to say that your dogs are so awesome! Considering getting a wolfhound once our circumstances permit.

They are an AMAZING breed. I have always had dogs growing up and then was a K9 officer for a short time in the Army. I've never owned or been around a more lovable breed. If you ever have any questions feel free to ask.

How soon after breaking it did you go to the hospital? How did you find out it was broken?

It was a day or two after, but the doctor took a look at it and basically told me he suspected it was fractured and referred me to the urology clinic.

Was it painful the first time you ejaculated after surgery and recovery?

Definitely not painful at the moment it happened, quite the opposite actually. But afterwards it was a little sore for a few hours. I've found that to be the case even up to today. The soreness isn't terrible, but it seems like it's going to be something that I have to live with now.

That's good to hear! Hope everything continues to go well for y'all.

pssst whispers Miss fiance . . . if you're ever in a bind, try a vibrator to the perineum! Or, you know . . . "up in thar", if he'll let you! I've heard that moves things along when necessary!

If that was offensive, just pretend I didn't say it. :-)

She's laughing, I keep offering to use toys but she always says no to buying them.

Fiance: That's because we don't need them.

You shouldn't consider whether or not you need them. They're fun for everyone and changes things up in bed.

Maybe I'll just buy it myself and surprise her? Quick while she's not looking, what's your go to toy that you'd recommend?

Is this something that doctors see on a regular basis? I didn't know this was possible!

I don't think it's too terribly common. I had never met anyone who had this happened before it happened it to me.

Welcome back to awesome sex life:) how does your fiancée feel about the incident? Does she feel a little bit guilty? No offense, I just imagined myself in this situation...

Fiancee: I feel bad, but it's not ALL my fault.

I don't blame her, shit happens, just happened to be my dick getting fractured this time around.

You guys seem like a nice couple) good luck to you and your girl) also, good luck with doggie!

Thanks so much :)

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Yup, pretty much everyone I'm close with knows and has seen the surgery pic. I'm working on the now pic for you guys. It's just a lot of pressure.

Are you still able to have babies?

Yup, no worries about procreating when that day finally arrives.

For the fiancé: how is he in the sack?

Fiance: Great, I'd say our sex life is better now.

What were your friend's and family reaction when you told them your fiancee injured your penis during sexytime?

To be honest I don't think any of them were shocked. If it was going to happen to someone it probably bound to be me. I was always the more adventurous and/or promiscuous of my brothers and I.

What day to day precautions do you have to take for your penis? Can you still exercise or play contact sports?

For the first month or so I had to be super careful, but I'm back to normal now. I am actually going through the police academy now and have been doing fine with all of the defensive tactics. The worst is getting whipped in the dick by my dogs' tails.

How ... how does one fracture ones penis??

By not being careful.

How have your wolfhounds responded to the whole situation? They happy now that Mama and Papa seem happier?

Ya, it's amazing how in tune pets can be to your needs. They are much happier, but they always come in after my SO and I finish having sex with a really shaming, investigatory look on their faces.

Could you/are you trying to have a kid?

I am still able to have kids, but we aren't trying yet.

The original IAmA dick pic cant be found. I'm a little sad cause everyone said you have a big dick. :(

Forgot I privated that album. Heading over to imgur to make it public again.

Surely OP will deliver

I'm just grabbing lunch and then I'll post the night album links up top for you guys. Sorry about the wait.

You may have been asked this already, but how the hell did it break in the first place?

Doggy style. I slipped out and started going forward while she was coming back.

How does one actually fracture a penis since its mainly muscle?

For all of the medical-ish questions I have asked my doctors, I never asked them why they call it a fracture. What I can tell you is that the actual trauma caused a scar tissue buildup and that is what needed to be excised during the surgery.