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IamA Grace Helbig AMA
My short bio: Oh, hello. I'm Grace Helbig. I'm the creator and host of the youtube channel itsGrace. I recently wrote a book called Grace's Guide: The Art of Pretending to be a Grown-Up that's coming out October 21st. You can pre-order it at http://www.gracesguidebook.com. Please do so. I'm doing this AMA to finally feel something.
My Proof: http://i.imgur.com/znjJMyP.jpg?1
gracehelbig398 karma
What do you want to know about myself or the book or yourself or the book?
Elisemaartje103 karma
hey grace, I can't wait to read your book! What was the hardest part of writing it? :)
gracehelbig233 karma
the hardest part was getting in done in the small window of time I gave myself to write it. did you know you can't stop time? it's, like, impossible. like tanya harding having a hit opera album. impossible. actually, well...
LordPizza238 karma
Hi Grace! My girlfriend wants to know what a good drinking game would be for Halloween? Or what your favorite drinking game is? Either one.
Thanks and we love your videos!
gracehelbig844 karma
drink every time you see a kid who's probably going to grow up and be the costume they're dressed as. etc.
jumpeduppantrygirl196 karma
What was it like watching Mamrie fall off her Segway in Hey USA?
Also, when are you coming to Dallas?!
gracehelbig194 karma
HEY GUYS! I'M CALLING THIS AMA RIGHT NOW! THANK YOU FOR ALL OF YOUR AMAZING/DUMB/WONDERFUL/STUPID/INSIGHTFUL/THOUGHTFUL/IDIOTIC/LOVELY QUESTIONS! IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY DON'T FORGET TO PRE-ORDER THE BOOK AT http://www.gracesguidebook.com! DO SOMETHING COOL TONIGHT! HIDE A BURGER IN YOUR FRIENDS HOUSE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS! Thanks again! -g
iLiikeUnicorns139 karma
I love you and have been following you for quite a lot of years. Also went to the #nofiltershow in London and I looooved it!
Will there be any sightings of your mom in the future videos? Or better yet, will she finally start a youtube channel?
You've done movies, books, comedy shows. What will you conquer next?
I love you.
gracehelbig381 karma
- THAT IS VERY SWEET
- she contributed to the book! aaaaaand there might be some of her popping up at our future nofiltershows NO SPOILERS
- i'm drinking a jamba juice and a red bull I CAN DO ANYTHING
- i platonically appreciate all that you are
gracehelbig313 karma
was i anxious about sharing my anxiety? you bet. lolololololololololololololololololololol repress and i'm back. it's been helpful and hopefully helps someone else start a conversation about it. it takes a lot of the power out of the problem when you voice it.
onelifereminder113 karma
Hi Grace! I just ordered your book for 10 teens who I know could use guidance. The thing that inspires me the most is your work ethic and I've been a huge fan of your career for a while now. It seriously makes my brain start to smoke to think of how much content you've put out over the past 5+ years. What keeps you focused and going as much as you do?
gracehelbig162 karma
i've been a workaholic for a lot of my life - being social is the stuff i've been working on as an adult. i like making sh*t. if i don't have a few things happening at once i feel anxious. learned behavior from my dad i think.
JaSaw0105 karma
You, Mamrie, and Hannah create a YouTube channel documenting animals in relationships. What do you name it?
FluffyKittyKat80 karma
Grace, you've accomplished so much this year from Camp Takota to your own E! talk show pilot to this book! I just have one question for you...
How do you fluff a duck?
nicolaspencer74 karma
Is there going to be a Grace and Michelle reunion soon??
((p.s are you uploading fridiary bc I need to know whether to sleep or not #blessed))
gracehelbig111 karma
hopefully soon! and FriDiary will probably become a SaturDiary! sorry - GO TO SLEEP
roseypolitics72 karma
I feel proud of you. You are making team internet look so good lately.
What is your favorite Hannah/Mamrie drinking story?
gracehelbig116 karma
THANK YOU, YOU ARE A HUMAN SWEET. there's been a lot of drinking stories but i definitely love my drunk pumpkin - look for part 2 coming soon on Hannah's channel!
princessvoldemort53 karma
Hey Grace! I'm a huge fan of yours. My questions for you are: Which place do you want to to a No Filter Show where you haven't done one? And what made you decide to major in contemporary arts in college?
gracehelbig120 karma
Australia! and i knew i wanted to be creative but didn't know exactly which direction to go so i got a vague communications degree that proved to the professional world i was worthy of hiring.
CatchThisDrift48 karma
Hey there. Do you consciously hold your hands the way you do, fingers all stuck together like you're wearing socks on your hands, or does it just happen that way?
gracehelbig96 karma
it's been an organic development - i gesticulate a lot and i'm physically awkward - put that together and that's what you get
tumblr_geek1344 karma
Was there any part of the book you were hesitant about having the world read?
saxxandviolins41 karma
Hi Grace!!! Just wondering, would you rather have a hook hand or a peg leg? Thanks ;)
deadpool879032 karma
First and foremost, you're new cranky video came at a time when I was very cranky and needed a laugh. I subscribed to Tyler Oakly, thank you. I have so many questions. First of which are you ever coming to Phoenix, AZ for anything....no filter...extention of your book tour perhaps? Second, you mentioned sending your mom a copy of the book, was there anything she didn't know about in it? What were her feels upon reading it?
gracehelbig56 karma
i never told her specifics about the hotel weekend breakup story - EEP
tumblr_geek1331 karma
what are you most proud of? and what do you think your parents are most proud of you for?
gracehelbig114 karma
i'm always most proud when someone tells me i'm nice. it's the only thing my mom has ever really asked me to do in life. be nice and be humble. i hope i always am. and i hope you are too.
graduallemon30 karma
Grace, love your videos! You're really inspirational to aspiring comedians, and it's always great to watch what you'll come up with next.
That being said, what kind of camera/editing software/equipment do you use?
Thanks!
JazzyFizzle9430 karma
Lately I've been feeling super unmotivated with school, how do I get back in the groove?
gracehelbig108 karma
don't force it - try to look at the work from a different perspective - get creative and make it fun for yourself #vague #vague #vague
ShadUpJoe27 karma
Hey Grace- If you could single out one hilariously awkward moment from your life and watch it happen to someone else, what would it be and who would you want to watch?
gracehelbig60 karma
i fell on my head doing a back walkover in a comedy show so i'd love to see that happen to ...hmmm...maybe hannah? only on account of she watched it happen to me.
disasterology1121 karma
If you were to ever be trapped in an elevator who are the two people you'd want to be stuck with?
sailsafe21 karma
hey grace! can't wait to get your book in the mail. what were some of your other book ideas before you landed on this one? or was this what you wanted to do all along? thanks and see you in minneapolis!
gracehelbig36 karma
i wanted to write a book but didn't know exactly what about and this hit me like a ham sandwich
popcorny2720 karma
Hey Grace! Been a fan for a few years now and I'm so excited to read your book!
What is your favorite part of the book?
gracehelbig57 karma
there's a lot in the book i really like (DIVA), but i really love the section on anxiety. i let you guys in on a part of my life i don't always talk about. WHOA.
shadingtree19 karma
I've noticed that a lot of youtubers are using reddit to connect with their audiences (namely due to the poor structure of YouTube comments). So... 1. Have your relationship with your community been affected by YouTube comment or subscription algorithm? 2. Would you ever utilize reddit? Or does tumblr/twitter cover your bases? 3. Love your work! Can't wait for the book.
gracehelbig72 karma
i've always stayed away from reddit because redditors usually hate me but this isn't so bad
gracehelbig59 karma
both mamrie and hannah's eps haven't aired yet and they're really great
Philnoise17 karma
Hey Grace! Looking forward to the NYC No Filter Show next weekend - will there be any special guests on this run that you can announce?
AudreyEB16 karma
Hello! I'm so excited to finally read the book and I am so glad that you and Mamrie will be visiting the southeast next month for TMGWY! My questions are: What is your favorite part of your book? Also, what drink would you recommend be their first on their 21st?
gracehelbig59 karma
you gotta get something real dumb as your first drink. something big and bright colored. it'll teach you very quickly that things that are loud and flashy are usually overcompensating and will often times leave you with a headache.
tumblr_geek1316 karma
do you think you will eventually stop making youtube videos? if so what do you think would be your reason for stopping?
gracehelbig66 karma
i don't know to be honest. i really love doing it. i guess if i ever really hate it i'd take a pause. but i can't imagine it would be forever. I JUST CAN'T QUIT YOU(TUBE) #momjoke
chilldotcomslashcamp14 karma
Hi! First of all, thank you! I started watching youtube videos because my parents had just moved us to a whole different country where I didn't speak the language and it turns out the Internet is really great at connecting people. And then I grew up and kept watching and you were such an important part of that. So basically: I have been watching for a while and I love what your videos have turned into and I am continually inspired by what you put out. And I am so excited for the book to arrive soon! Here are my questions: 1) what would you tell yourself five years ago about your life now? 2) Best French bulldog Instagrams to follow? :) Also if you ever feel like bringing the #nofilter show to a kinda remote part of Tuscany, let me know!
gracehelbig26 karma
- keep going and never stop the silly
- manny the frenchie is pretty solid stuff
VEERAALEKSANDRA13 karma
the best advice for someone who is trying to survive high school while battling with crippling anxiety and panic attacks?
NewMediaWizard11 karma
What is the most important piece of advice you could give to someone looking to start creating YouTube videos? Aside of the cliche 'make what you want to make' or 'post regularly', what pearls of wisdom can you give?
gracehelbig39 karma
what do you like watching? what do you like doing? how can you translate that into youtube videos? take time to experiment and always, always make sure you're enjoying yourself.
shadingtree11 karma
What are your thoughts on long-distance relationships? How do you make it work?
colleenhelbig9 karma
What were some obstacles you came across while writing the book, if any?
gracehelbig28 karma
balancing how much of my personal life I wanted to put in it - i really didn't want it to be a memoir
ohalexaandra9 karma
to be honest i just really want to know what kind of shampoo and conditioner do you use? bc hair is always ON POINT
gracehelbig25 karma
my hair is a sticky temptress. i use a variety of sh*t - my hair lady gave me "big sexy hair" products - is that what they're called? they're very full of themselves
gracehelbig28 karma
remembering what writing was like - i've been making videos for so long I forgot about the sheer physical aspect of writing (i liked to handwrite all the chapters before i typed them out)
Fanzellino8 karma
Were there any specific events you look t as milestones or turning points in your career? Also, what is your giraffe torso's name?
gracehelbig30 karma
the biggest milestone was the night i decided i wanted to pursue comedy - twas a great night
the giraffe has no name and no gender - it can be whatever it wants
gracehelbig21 karma
getting to be creative in a different way - i love writing - originally i wanted to be a screenwriter when i went to school so this was a welcome gift to put my voice on paper
AtNickk7 karma
Hi Grace, I pre-ordered your book. What is your process like while writing the live shows, or any comedy you write?
gracehelbig41 karma
for our live shows we usually sit around and brainstorm and when one of us says that one thing that makes us all go "that's so stupid" we write it down and put it in the show
life_of_lurking6 karma
Hi Grace, first off I would like to say thanks for the likes on Tumblr! Secondly, I live in Australia and was wondering if you, Mamrie and Hannah would consider coming to do a #NoFilterShow?
dirtysocknugget5 karma
What are you most looking forward to when in Chicago next week, being in the number one city for drinking or the comedy clubs?
gracehelbig24 karma
looking to hopefully put on a super fun show. OUR COSTUMES THIS TIME AROUND ARE MY FAVORITE
gracehelbig42 karma
there's been a lot of moments but when mamrie fell off that segway I laughed for DAYS
gracehelbig17 karma
- youre not gonna die with money in your pockets
- there are a couple helpful nuggets in those pages
- a lot of people put a lot of effort into it (including my mom!)
Catapottamus4 karma
Hi Grace! Love your podcast and Youtube channel. I'm excited for your book! My questions are:
If you could be sponsored by any company which would it be?
What's your favorite noodle?
sarakhxmxs3 karma
did you take any days off from writing? because 6 weeks is a very short period
gracehelbig17 karma
i wrote very stream of consciousness and didn't have a writing schedule - just wrote as much as i could when the inspiration hit me - like this!
gracehelbig14 karma
i like visiting new york now - it's like that friend that's really fun when you start drinking but when they get TOO drunk they're just angry and bitter and suddenly smell like a lot of farts
colleenhelbig3 karma
I'm sad I can't go to your Boston book signing, but hopefully I'll meet you soon! what was your biggest inspiration behind the book? I love you!
gracehelbig12 karma
I've learned some stuff in life and I want to share it - I wish I had a book like this when I was in high school - it would have saved me a lot of nonsense. Then again you guys have the internet, so you'll be fine. But please buy the book.
thecricketnerd563 karma
Is it ego-inflating to know that everyone gives you a shoutout before dinner?
PS. You are consistently great on @midnight. Are you on the comedian path?
Edit: What! Gold? Thank you, generous stranger!
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