IamA 22 year old man with a Micropenis. AMA! (NSFW)

Were you surprised at the outrage from both sides after you fired James Comey?

edit: rogue apostrophe

This is the best post in this thread.

Do you give a disclaimer to people before engaging in sexual activity that involves your penis, or do you surprise them? Also, what's the worst sexual experience you have had related to your dong, and what's the best?

Side note: I expected it to be smaller, honestly.

It only took one or two surprises for me to learn to let people know early on lol. As for my worst sexual experience, it was losing my virginity at about 18. She thought I wasn't erect, and when she realized I was, she tried REALLY hard not to laugh. She was really sweet, and honestly, I don't blame her. She hardly felt it when it was in, and I finished after about 30 seconds. Everyone's first time is bad, but, that felt especially bad lol

As for best, it's hard to say, since I've had my fair share of good experiences.

Thank you for honest response! I'm rather curious as a rule, and I appreciate your candid approach. Okay, two more questions: if you can't think of your best experience, what is one that is memorable on the pleasant side of things? Also, how does the conversation usually go when you tell them about your penis?

I dated a really nice guy for about a year. Our first time was pretty good. He went down on me, which is a bit of a rarity for me, and it was just really intimate and nice. Great orgasm too. Afterwards, I bottomed for him. It was my first time doing so, but he was really patient and it went pretty well.

As for the conversation, they usually think I'm joking at first. Afterwards it can be really different, depending on who I'm talking to. People react very differently to a tiny penis lol.

Do you think having a micropenis in any way influenced your attraction to guys instead of vagina?

Honestly, probably. I don't know how I feel about the whole nature vs nurture thing, but I wasn't into guys at all as a teenager.

Basically you just doubled your odds on getting laid.

It's hard to say. I mean, I didn't DECIDE to like guys or anything. It just sort of happened around 18/19.

To be honest, I don't think it is "really sweet" of her to "try not to laugh." I can't imagine laughing at a woman as she removes her bra with all the padding, etc.

Anyway, I wish you the best, and I am glad you have a positive attitude about something that should not define you at all.

We were teenagers, and I could tell she felt really bad. Honestly, I don't expect teenagers to react that much differently to something like that. We stayed friends for a while, but we were never really romantically interested in each other in the first place.

I assume you mean 46 millimeters?

46 cm is a hair over 18 inches, and nearly a half-meter XD

Fixed. My finger missed the decimal lol.

Dang microfingers

I'm not Donald Trump.

You have a bigger dick at least.

Also true

You and your dong can have a beer on me any time just so you know.

Sounds good. That's two beers, though. One for each of us.

Assuming that gross dick pic is op's there's no way 4.6 millimeters is accurate either. That'd be. 0.18 inches.

1. Dick pics are gross
2. I wasn't the one who suggested this guys dick is 4.6 millimeters, I was the one who said that it's obviously bigger than that.

I wonder how many downvotes you're gonna end up with after this. Probably a lot. Jerk.

Believe me, I've heard a lot worse lol.

Do you drive a lifted 4x4 truck?

Nope. I drive a VW Beetle. Might as well be forward about it. ;)

Did you know that drinking Anaconda Malt Liquor would lead to your condition?

Guess I should have eased up on the drinking as a fetus.

I've had two BFs with micro-penises. To me it isn't an issue at all. They worked the tool they had to great effect. ;-)

Each time though it has been really difficult to know how to convey that to them, or knowing whether it is best to simply say nothing. First guy I praised his penis, and that backfired. He got angry and accused me of sarcasm.

Any tips? Especially wrt guys who haven't quite embraced the situation as you have?

Honestly, just be patient. Every guy handles it differently. Try not to mention it at all, and if he asks, just be reassuring. And go down on him. A lot.

Since you have experience (this is also for /u/UndersizedCub) - does this one actually classify as a micropenis? I've seen guys with smaller, like literally pinkie-sized. I'm thinking OP could still get some work done with what he's got.

Anything under 7cm is a micropenis

I'm sure there's fetishists that would fetishize a micropenis. Have you come across any? If so, is the attention welcomed by you?

Yes I have, and yes it is. They aren't great for dating, since they only care about one part of me but they can be fun for a roll in the hay.

And I'm guessing they're all dudes...

Mostly. There is a lady here and there, though.

honestly im in love with your micropenis and its fetishistic but at the same time i could never date just for sex. like you would have to be super cool or my fetish wouldnt be enough to keep me around. theres gotta be men or women that are super turned on by it but still are into other aspects of you.

Thanks! And there are. You just gotta find em

It is actually bigger than I thought for a "micro" penis. Is there a size range that classifies genitalia as micro?

Anything smaller than 7cm.

.... Fuck

Sorry m8

I had to pull out a ruler to double check if I had undiagnosed micropenis.

... And? Are you?

Do you have any issues using condoms? What kind do you use?

I have special ordered ones form my doctor. They don't come into play much, because I don't tend to do penetrative sex much.

you seem pretty open and upbeat for having something that some people might consider... un upbeat. how do you stay positive?

I wasn't always so positive, to be honest. I have dealt with a lot of depression, and still do. I started this thread today because I was in a pretty high self esteem kind of mood. Really, it's just learning to stop worrying about it so much. Everybody is SOMEBODY's type. Sure, my pool might be smaller than most peoples, but hey. That just makes finding good sexual partners easier.

Everybody is SOMEBODY's type

I tell this to my friends who are shy or who think women are some big mystery. You got a shitty roll in the genetic lottery but I think youre handling it well. A lot of girls out there are willing to accept great oral and toys and hands etc if you're good and they like your personality.

It's true. Not matter what you look like, or who you are, someone out there thinks you're a 10/10.

How have your sexual experiences differed between the sexes? Do you find men or women to be more understanding/ non judgemental?

Men tend to be better about it. Plus, there is a pretty large pool of gay men who enjoy small penises. With women, its always something to overcome. A lot of men early want it.

Do you think the 'comfort' of a smaller penis for a top is why some men like it?

With men, do you bottom, top, or both? (generally)

Do you think men are more understanding because they understand the 'size anxiety' of being a male, or is it more your experience that these men are sexually attracted to your penis because of its size?

Probably. I generally bottom. It tends to be better for me and my partners.

(Bottom is when you take the pee pee?)

Lol yes

When you first realized you were small, how did it affect your confidence?

Poorly. I was pretty devastated. Not only was my penis small, it was TINY. That's rough for a teenage boy.

Thanks for the honest answer. I once felt the same but realized it's not that bad after a while. More power to you!!

Whatever makes you happy, right? Everyone has some cross to bear. Mine is my penis lol.

Are you fertile?

Yup. My testes are totally normal.

Thanks for doing this AMA. When was the first time you realized your penis was smaller than average?

No problem! My parents talked to me about my hormone shots pretty young, but it didn't really hit me until 8th grade gym class.

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I finally had other penises to compare it to in the locker room.

I'm probably gonna get some flak for this but....

do you wish it was bigger?

Are you a grower or a shower?

If I'm honest, I actually expected it to be smaller than it is.

I do sometimes wish I was bigger but not as often as used to. But really, what guy DOESN'T wish his penis was different now and then? I'm a grower. When I'm flaccid, it's barley there. I'm not really comfortable showing that, to be honest. You shouldn't feel bad for asking, though. These are legitimate questions.

Growers of the world unite! :D

So does that mean you've been lucky enough to never catch your penis in your zipper?

What sexual position do you find gives you (also your partner) the best results?

No I have not lol. Best sex position for penetrating is up on my knees, holding the girl's legs while she lays on her back.

Can I ask how you pee? You said it's barely there when flaccid. How do you aim? What direction does it go to if you do it sitting down? I kind of imagine it just going forward.

I can go standing. I just have to hold the little nub just right.

for the erection in the picture, what were you watching/thinking about?

Taking a picture for a reddit ama.

How do you masturbate?

With my forefinger and thumb.

FYI to all: generally, anything under 7 cm is considered a micropenis.

For OP: were they able to identify what hormonal or health issue led to the underdevelopment of your penis?

They thought it might have been a genetic thing at first, but after a lot of testing that I don't remember, they think that it was because I didn't get enough testosterone when I was developing. It led to a GHD problem that caused me to be really small ss a kid, and delayed puberty.

Have you ever been dumped strictly because of your micropenis?

Yup. It's why I let people know what they are getting into before sex now.

I feel there is alot of pressure for men with a small penis to somehow compensate for it and still give there partner a good time. As in you have a small doodle so you better come up with something else for me. My question, have you had many partners who have taken it upon themselves to give you a good time because of your small willy? Because I'm sure many people could understand the damage you have received because of it, so they just be a great person and rock your world. Has this happens much?

A few times, actually. I've been with some rad people in my time.

Does it affect how comfortable you are speaking to other people about sex?

Not really. In person, it's always awkward. Then again, I've always been a bit shy by nature anyway, even as a kid.

Have you ever considered the selling point "You'll never gag by taking it all"?

EDIT: Second question - how effective/ineffective are chastity devices/cock cages on you? Have you ever tried one?

No I have not. To the second question yes I have, and they work pretty well, but you have to get the smallest size they have lol

Do you have a medical condition? Like low T or Panhypopituitarism?

I had low T and GHD as a kid, but after a delayed puberty, things sort of evened out. My penis just never grew to it's fill potential.

Shouldn't your user be undersized chub? Ha!

Cub is a gay slang term for a young, chubby guy!

Oh I didn't even know that. I just want to let you know, I meant absolutely no disrespect.

It's totally fine.

What's the difference in size when flaccid vs erect? Overall, have men or women been more understanding of your micro penis?

Flaccid, it mostly disappears into my abdomen lol. Men tend to be better about it.

Have you had to wrestle with the desire to drive a large jacked up truck?

No, but for some reason I really want to start a company, star in a reality show, and then become president.

Can I get a banana for scale?

Bananas come in different sizes. Like penises!

Have you ever seen a doctor about cosmetic surgery to increase the size?

Sorry if you arent comfortable talking about it

Yup. There ware ways, but they are all kind of minor, and could result in some pretty nasty side effects.

Have you ever considered using attachments, prosthetics, or perhaps even cosmetic surgery? People do it for all kinds of reasons. Seems like the obvious solution at least for pleasing understanding partners and imparting some confidence in you.

I've used attachments and prosthetics. I don't know if I'd ever do surgery unless I knew for a fact it's wouldn't ruin my functionality. It may be small, but at least it works.

What is your major in college and what type of career do you want?

Photography

have you ever had any one night stands because the person was curious just to see your penis and wanted to engage in sex with you? In other words has the fact that you have a micropenis actually worked in your favor for getting laid?

Yeah. Mostly with men, though. Gay guys are really curious, and wanna try a lot.

I am sure you have been approached by sph fetish people. I am not micro but pretty small and I think the attention made me get a fetish. I am not very extreme with it but friendly teasing turns me on. Did you have the same experience Or is that a total turn off for you?

I enjoy it from time to time, as long as I get some good aftercare.

Are there any special positions you find gives your partner more (for lack of a better word) depth?

The best, I find, is me on my knees, holding her legs, while she is on her back.

How has this affected your confidence when seeking a sexual partner?

Oh for sure. Especially since I've known since puberty that I had an usually small penis, and likely always would. That's pretty devastating for a teenage boy lol. Since then, I've learned to embrace it.

Have you ever had a sexual partner ask "is it in yet"? If so how did you respond? Do you think there is a tactful way of going about asking if it's in yet?

It happened the first time. I was embarassed, obviously lol. Nowadays, we talk about it beforehand to avoid such questions lol

Was it difficult for you to accept it and move on, or were you always okay with the size? If it was hard to accept it, how did you get over it?

Oh it was super difficult. It still is, sometimes. It's all about finding the right sexual partners. Cut out negative people in your life, and learn to love yourself. It's cheesy, but true.

any tips for better oral? you mentioned you were good at it. also has anyone ever questioned if you were trans or anything regarding gender? how did you react?

Honestly? Learn to read body language And don't put too much attention the clit. The WHOOOLE vulva is your playground. Explore it. As for the trans thing, no. I have fairly prominent balls.

Why do an AMA?

Because when I tell people on the internet about it they always have a million questions, so I figured other people must too. Plus, it's good for my self esteem to get stuff off my chest.

Do you show and tell to other people?

Sometimes

I give my girlfriend some of the best orgasms with my penis while I'm outside of her, have you ever given that a shot? Size doesn't matter in that case, just technique

Yeah, but I prefer to use my mouth. I'm better with it.

Do you think you would still be gay if you had a "normal or above" penis? Or would you be bisexual?

I am bisexual. I'm sure my sexuality would be different if I had a big, or even below average penis, but then again, who's wouldn't be?

I don't really know if the answer is so evident, that is why I asked.

If I had a 4cm penis or 35cm penis instead of a 25cm penis I don't think it would change my attraction to the sexes.

Also, you should update your post with a glory shot of your dick's profile because it is hard to evaluate size from the angle you posted. It at least looks like you have some girth, right?

Honestly, it's hard to say. I mean, trying to imagine myself with a different penis is basically impossible. How am I supposed to know how I would be different as a person, you know? All I can do is speculate.

As for the picture, I can try, but my little guy tends to be a bit camera shy. Just getting that one was tough. My girth is a nice bit below average, bit it's definitely better than my length.

Hey, sorry in advance, this question is about being bisexual.

I'm bi and closeted in a pretty damn conservative area (my school can kick me out if they catch me holding hands with a guy), but I'm also itching to date a guy. What are the differences between dating guys and girls? Is one easier or more natural than the other?

Thanks so much for doing this AMA!

Guys tend to be more forward, and seem to expect less. Girls are often coy, but guys will tell you what they want.

Have you ever had to deal with a friend complaining about having an small penis, lets say 10 cm for instance, and what happened? How you felt and how he felt afterwards. I know it is a weird question, but I'm curious.

All the time. i tend to just snicker internally and roll my eyes. They don't know how lucky they are.

Is it hereditary? Or do you not have any idea of your father's size?

No, and no.

Have you considered transitioning into a woman and just getting it removed?

Honestly, they thought has occurred to me, but I enjoy being a man.

What cant you decide on liking either one gender? Bisexual seems indecisive, doesn't it?

Why have chocolate or vanilla when you could have a swirl?

That implies a 3 some. Not really a good example.

I've had threesomes!

Did your size influence your choice in sexuality? As in, not saying sexuality is a choice, but if you're bi, do you prefer to have sex with men rather than women because you feel you wouldnt be able to pleasure a woman effectively?

Yeah. I prefer men, because a lot of male tops tend to like small penises on a man. Sex with women can be frustrating, for various reasons, but if I really like a girl, I still try.

Yeah i figured. Lots of tops want their bottoms to be sissies or at least smaller than them. It's cruel that women are trained by society to laugh at small penises.

Also, would/have you ever considered buying a strap on that gives you a decent 6-7 incher for women that you really like? Thatd be something id offer to a girl if i had a micro-peene.

I mean, that's sort of a narrow view, I think, but sure. Whatever stimulates your world view.

Ever looked into a dick sheath? Spencers sells them, its literally just like a gelly thing that goes over your dick to make it thicker/slightly longer. Im not saying its a go-to everytime, and I see you use toys regularly (awesome job on your part btw) but I can imagine it might just be a little more intimate to be slightly larger inside your SO.

Yeah, I've used them. hard to find one small enough though

Have you made an extra effort to be super attentive to women's needs in the bedroom, intending them to go away with a pleasurable experience? Not saying everyone shouldn't anyway, just sometimes our personal situation forces us to be more aware of each other.

Honestly, I just got really good at oral, and with toys. I've long since accepted that my little guy doesn't do a whole lot for women without some (Read: a lot of) help

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You'd be surprised how many women don't seem to care about deep dickings. It's all about finding someone compatible, you know?

Are you into any weird sexual kinks?

Who isn't?

How often are you on Reddit and what are your favorite subreddits?

I'm new here! :D

I'm pretty sure there exists a legit surgery for that. Have you looked into it?

There is. And it comes with a lot of nasty side effects.

Are you circumcised?

Yup.

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